Going for a fertility health check is an important first step for family planning in the future. Though health screenings are becoming more readily available in Singapore, many people are still unsure of its procedures. If you’re looking to go for a fertility health check in Singapore with your partner, read on for a beginner’s guide to the types, procedures, costs and clinics.

Types of fertility health checks in Singapore

There are multiple ways to check one’s fertility health in Singapore. The most common types include pelvic ultrasound scan, semen analysis and blood tests. As these are typically included in all fertility check packages, additional tests may also be required upon consultation with the doctor.

1. Pelvic ultrasound scan

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What it is for: Conducted on women, the pelvic ultrasound test accesses the uterus, uterus lining, ovaries and the pelvic areas. This is to estimate when ovulation is likely to occur according to one’s menstrual cycle. 

How the procedure works: Prior to your ultrasound, you will be required to drink 500ml of water. This will fill the bladder, allowing the doctor to visualise the internal structure of the pelvis. Take note that the ultrasound has to be conducted between day 2 to 6 of your menstrual cycle. Don’t worry if you are still menstruating at the time of your scan, as it is perfectly normal.

2. Semen analysis

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What it is for: Conducted on men, a semen analysis measures the number of sperms, the size and shape of sperms and the movement of sperms. This is to determine if the sperms are a reason for a male’s infertility. A sperm count is considered low if there is less than 15 million sperm per milliliter. 

How the procedure works: Doctors will often take around 2 to 3 samples to determine a male’s sperm health. This is done either through masturbation, sex with a condom on, withdrawing from sex before ejaculation and stimulated ejaculation by electricity. The most common way to collect samples is through masturbation.

3. Blood tests

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What it is for: Conducted on both genders but more often for women, blood tests measure for important hormones in the body. For women, these tests check for fertile growth of the egg, ovulation problems, tumours in the pituitary gland and more. For men, these tests can find the cause of low sex drive, inability to get an erection and infertility.

Besides checking for hormones, sometimes additional blood tests may be required to check for STDs. Fun fact, going for blood tests regularly is also a good practice to make sure that your body is healthy.

How the procedure works: Blood tests are a fairly quick and simple process. A nurse or doctor will take a blood sample from a vein and send it to a lab for testing.

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Clinics in Singapore to get a fertility health check

Government hospitals

As government hospitals do not have fixed fertility health check packages, the tests you’ll be receiving are based on your assessment by the doctor. Here’s a pro-tip before making your way to one of the 3 government hospitals in Singapore on this list: get a referral from a polyclinic prior to your appointment to get a subsidised rate for your tests.

1. KK Women’s and Children’s Hospital

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For fertility screenings at KK Women’s and Children’s Hospital, blood and hormone tests will be conducted on women, while a semen analysis will be conducted on men. In the event that fertility treatment is required, the nurse coordinator at the hospital’s clinic, KKIVF, will provide you with all the information you require before making a decision. KKIVF is one of Singapore’s largest infertility centres, which offers a wide range of testing, diagnostic and treatment procedures.

Address: 100 Bukit Timah Road, Basement 1, Women’s Tower, KK Women’s and Children’s Hospital, Singapore 229899
Opening hours: 24 hours
Contact: Call 6294 4050 or email kkivf@kkh.com.sg
Booking: Call 6294 4050 to book an appointment
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2. National University Hospital

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National University Hospital’s Clinic for Reproduction was set up for fertility checks and treating couples with fertility issues. Besides these services, the hospital also has specialists dedicated to caring for young adults and postmenopausal women.

Address: 5 Lower Kent Ridge Road, Zone D, D04-02, Kent Ridge Wing, National University Hospital, Singapore 119074
Opening hours: 8am to 5pm (Mondays to Fridays) | 8.30am to 12.30pm (Saturdays) | Closed on Sundays and Public Holidays
Contact: Call 6774 5336 or email CHR@nuhs.edu.sg
Booking: Call 6774 5336 to book an appointment
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3. Singapore General Hospital

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With a team of over 30 years of experience, the Centre for Assisted Reproduction in Singapore General Hospital has a full range of fertility assessment services. These also extend to assisted reproduction services for women, sperm enhancement for men, freeze banking, egg donation and more. If necessary, individualised treatment will be provided for couples to achieve the best possible outcome.

Address: Outram Road, Block 5, Level 1, Singapore General Hospital, Singapore 169608
Opening hours: 8am to 5pm (Mondays to Fridays) | 8am to 12pm (Saturdays) | Closed on Sundays and Public Holidays
Contact: Call 6321 4377
Booking: Call 6321 4377 to book an appointment
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Private fertility clinics

Some may prefer going to private clinics instead, so as to have the same specialised gynaecologist follow through with every appointment. Private clinics also tend to have a fixed basic package for you to estimate the potential costs you may incur. As there are a large variety of fertility clinics to choose from in Singapore, we’ve compiled a list of well-known clinics here. 

1. Astra Centre for Women & Fertility

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Astra Centre for Women & Fertility is the women’s health arm of Singapore Medical Group (SMG), with a network of private specialists. Besides the usual ultrasound scan and sperm test offered by most centres, the Couple Fertility Assessment includes a number of detailed couple consultations by the centre’s IVF clinician. 

Astra Centre ensures that everything is accessed before you take the next step with the gynaecologist. A comprehensive review of past fertility treatments, counselling on ovulation monitoring and calculation, and a treatment plan proposal for infertility will be done too.

Price: $400 nett for the Couple Fertility Assessment
Address: 38 Irrawaddy Road, #05-40, Mount Elizabeth Novena Specialist Centre, Singapore 329563
Opening hours: 9am to 5pm (Mondays to Tuesdays) | 9am to 1pm (Wednesdays) | 9am to 5pm (Thursdays to Fridays) | 9am to 1pm (Saturdays) | Closed on Sundays
Contact: Call 6333 6636
Booking: Fill in the appointment form on its website
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2. GynaeMD Women’s & Rejuvenation Clinic

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GynaeMD Women’s & Rejuvenation Clinic is led by Dr Christopher Ng, president and founding member of the Overseas Medical Graduates Association. The Couple Infertility Assessment includes a medical history and physical examination, ultrasound scan and hysterosalpingography, semen analysis and ovulation assessment. 

The clinic also offers a range of aesthetic services for other issues such as acne and hair loss.

Price: $590 inclusive of GST for the Couple Infertility Assessment
Address: 1 Orchard Boulevard, #04-03A, Camden Medical Centre, Singapore 248649
Opening hours: 9am to 5.30pm (Mondays to Fridays) | 9am to 1pm (Saturdays) | Closed on Sundays and Public Holidays
Contact: Call 6733 8810 or email gynaemd@singnet.com.sg
Booking: Fill in the appointment form on its website
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3. Mount Elizabeth Fertility Centre

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Situated within Mount Elizabeth Hospital, Mount Elizabeth Fertility Centre has an established reputation for treating all types of medical conditions. The Basic Fertility Assessment includes pelvic ultrasound test, semen analysis and a couple consultation with the centre’s fertility specialist.

Besides your physical well-being, Mount Elizabeth Fertility Centre ensures that you have all the emotional support you need. Look to the stress management and counselling services to talk you through this journey if necessary.

Price: $374 including GST for the Basic Fertility Assessment
Address: 3 Mount Elizabeth, Level 3, Mount Elizabeth Hospital, Singapore 228510
Opening hours: 24 hours
Contact: Call 6731 2693 or email ivf@parkwaypantai.com
Booking: Fill in the appointment form on its website
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4. Raffles Fertility Centre

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Raffles Fertility Centre is part of Raffles Medical Group, Singapore’s largest homegrown private healthcare provider. The centre offers the extensive Raffles Fertility Assessment for Couples to detect any underlying infertility issues early. 

The package includes pelvic ultrasound test, egg reserve blood test, pap smear, thyroid stimulating hormone test, prolactin hormone test, semen analysis and a review of the results with a fertility specialist.

Price: $396.10 including GST for the Raffles Fertility Assessment for Couples
Address: 585 North Bridge Road, Level 12, Raffles Hospital, Singapore 188770
Opening hours: 8.30am to 6pm (Mondays to Fridays) | 8.30am to 1pm (Saturdays) | Closed on Sundays
Contact: Call 6311 1250 or fill in the enquiry form on its website
Booking: Call 6311 1250 or fill in the appointment form on its website
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5. Thomson Fertility Centre

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Thomson Fertility Centre is an established brand licensed by the Ministry of Health. Its Fertility Screening for Couples includes comprehensive blood tests, pelvic ultrasound scan, semen analysis and a review with the centre’s fertility specialist. Do note that the price of the package exclusives the first consultation. 

Additionally, Thomson Fertility Centre makes sure that couples are assessed for suitability before taking up the package. You’re in good hands to make sure you don’t have to pay for extra unnecessary tests while you’re there.

Price: $450 including GST for the Fertility Screening For Couples
Address: 290 Orchard Road, #19-01 (Access via Lift Lobby F), Paragon Medical Centre, Singapore 238859
Opening hours: 8.30am to 5pm (Mondays to Fridays) | 8am to 12.30pm (Saturdays) | Closed on Sundays and Public Holidays
Contact: Call 6252 7766 or email tfc@thomsonmedical.com
Booking: Call 6252 7766, email tfc@thomsonmedical.com, or fill in the appointment form on its website
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6. Virtus Fertility Centre

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Virtus Fertility Centre is owned by Virtus Health, one of the world’s most successful fertility service providers. Before purchasing the fertility health check package, you can register for a free fertility seminar to learn more about the clinic and treatments available. 

The Couples Fertility Check Up includes a pelvic ultrasound, a semen analysis and a couple’s consultation with one of the fertility specialists who will develop a plan for pregnancy.

Price: $309 excluding GST for the Couples Fertility Check Up
Address: 9 Scotts Road, #09-01 to 05, Scotts Medical Center @ Pacific Plaza, Singapore 228210
Opening hours: 8am to 5pm (Mondays to Fridays) | 8am to 12pm (Saturdays) | Closed on Sundays
Contact: Call 6460 4555
Booking: Call 6460 4555 or fill in the appointment form on its website
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Importance Of Taking A Fertility Health Check In Singapore

If you and your partner have been unsuccessfully trying for a baby, we recommend going for a fertility health check in Singapore. As we’re moving on from old superstitions and taboos, there’s no shame in early detection for any possible forms of infertility. We hope that this guide will help you ease your fears and encourage you to find the most suitable fertility clinic.

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This article was first published on 24 March 2021 and last updated on 3 April 2024. 

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Here’s an uncomfortable truth ‒ if you thought entering a romantic relationship could be complicated, try keeping the flame alive for a decade. It’s all too common for couples to settle into a routine after a while, risking the sparks fizzling out if they don’t put in the effort. 

But does true love still exist? To find out, I spoke to five couples who’ve been together for 10 years or more to learn about their secrets and tips for having a long-lasting relationship. 

1. “Try new hobbies and activities that appeal to both of us”

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“I met my partner when I was 24 years old, and we’ve been together for 10 years now. The best part about being in a long-term relationship is knowing that there will always be someone to fall back on, and having a best friend whom you can share anything with. Plus, he understands what I’m thinking without me having to say it. 

The secret to maintaining a strong relationship is realising that love is a choice, not just a feeling. My partner and I make sacrifices for each other because we choose to love each other ‒ it’s important for people to understand this before making a lifelong commitment. 

One other thing we do to keep sparks alive in our relationship is to try new activities and hobbies that appeal to both of us. For instance, we decided to tackle a 5,000-piece puzzle to complete as a bonding activity. However, after completing the puzzle, we realised that we didn’t have space to store it. Nonetheless, the experience became a cherished memory for us. 

As a word of advice, I’d say to not love a person because of their positive traits, but also to embrace their flaws.”

– Michelle, 34

2. “Make it a habit to set aside time to go on dates”

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“From dating to getting married to my partner, I don’t think I’ve ever been bored with him or our relationship in the past years. I think it’s normal for couples to fall into periods where everything becomes quite routine and expected. But I kind of like the predictability ‒ at this age, I’m no longer looking for much else.

The biggest challenge we faced in our relationship was adjusting to life as new parents when we had our first child. It really pushed our relationship to the limit as we were not prepared for new expectations, the lack of sleep, and challenges to deal with. 

At times, we are still working on being a couple who are parents. But at the core of it, we’ve overcome these hurdles by always forgiving each other at the end of any fight, and remembering the good things that each other does. 

We make it a habit to set aside time to go on dates once in a while, and we always look forward to travelling to break out of our routine. While I’m clueless about what the secret to maintaining a strong relationship is, I think it’s really just about respecting each other and trying to understand each other’s perspectives. Forgiveness and trust are also key ingredients.”

– Amara, 35

3. “Give each other space and distance”

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“My wife and I met when we were 17 years old, and having been together for 13 years, I understand all of her quirks and am able to easily read her mood. 

The best part about being with her is knowing that she will always be there for me whenever I need her. Whether it’s at the end of a long day or when I am looking forward to our next trip, knowing that she is always a part of the process makes me feel really secure.

My tip for maintaining sparks in a relationship might sound unconventional, but I’d say to give each other space and distance. After all, distance makes the heart grow fonder. It probably won’t work for every couple, but I believe that having your alone time helps to strengthen your love for each other even more.  

Ultimately, I think a relationship takes work over a very long period of time. Those who are looking to enter a romantic relationship need to be ready to commit and work hard for their partner and themselves.” 

– William, 31

4. “Make an effort to learn about each other’s interests”

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“This year marks the 12th year I’ve been together with my boyfriend since we met in polytechnic, and there has never been a dull moment with him. Even now, I still have lots of fun with him as if I’m going on our first date ‒ we make each other laugh, and I still get the “butterflies” from time to time. Plus, we express our love for each other through words of affirmation and actions.

The secret to maintaining a strong relationship differs from couple to couple, but I believe that it’s important to communicate to prevent any misunderstandings. I would advise against sleeping on an argument, and it’s best to talk and resolve matters before things escalate for the worse. 

One thing that I did to maintain sparks between us was to make an effort to learn about my boyfriend’s interests ‒ he enjoys gaming and watches DOTA tournaments. Although I had no clue about DOTA, I accompanied him to Bali to catch the live tournaments last year. During that time, I fully immersed myself in it and learned about the game. I even had a team I supported, which made the experience more enjoyable for both of us.

At the end of the day, I believe the duration of a relationship isn’t always the most important factor as there are couples who go their separate ways later in life. Instead of comparing your relationship with others or with your previous relationships, you should focus on the present, maintain strong communication, and put in an effort to learn about your partner’s interests.”

– Charmaine Sew, 30

5. “Important to have goals to work on together as a couple”

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“Being a decade-old same-sex couple, my partner and I have faced challenges regarding housing and coming out to each other’s families over the years. I’m glad that we’ve overcome most of them so far, and we got engaged last year. 

Most of my friends and family members were shocked yet impressed with our long-term relationship, probably because of the stereotype that same-sex couples are “promiscuous and can’t settle down.” That’s not necessarily true. My partner and I do know many couples – gay and straight – who have maintained strong long-term relationships. 

Having life milestones such as going for holidays and moving in together helps to maintain sparks between us, and I find it important to have goals to work on as a couple to keep things exciting. 

Most importantly, open communication is essential to maintaining a strong relationship ‒ telling your partner exactly how you feel or what you think at the moment cultivates a strong understanding of each other. I personally wouldn’t understand how couples function if they aren’t happy about something, but instead swallow it and complain to their friends and family.”

– Derrick, 33

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Whether it’s TikTok or Instagram, it’s easy to open a social media app and find out what your fave influencers are up to. And for many of these popular influencers, they also have a partner by their side, supporting them through their every milestone.

But who exactly are these partners and what do they do? Rather than simply being referred to as a “plus one”, they are also equally successful in their own way. Here are 12 influencers’ partners that prove that they are more than just an extension of their partner.

1. Shawn Thia — Xenia Tan’s fiancé

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Shawn Thia and his partner Xenia Tan are best known for starring together on the drama series, The Algorithm. Shawn was already pursuing acting back in 2016, and made his breakthrough in a 2020 Chinese drama, TiTouDao: Inspired by the True Story of a Wayang Star. 

Apart from acting, Shawn is also a content creator and a talent signed under SGAG. 

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2. Naomi Yeo — Benjamin Kheng’s wife

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Benjamin Kheng may be one of the most popular artists in Singapore, but his wife Naomi Yeo is an equal force of talents to be reckoned with. She debuted as an actress at the age of 17, and is also a radio presenter on 987FM, a host, a voiceover artist and a yoga instructor. That’s a huge feat of achievements under her belt. 

She was also recently announced as Lululemon’s ambassador, with posters of her in Lululemon stores all over the world. 

Follow Naomi Yeo on Instagram.

3. Ryan Tonge — RRILEY’s boyfriend

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Singer RRILEY enjoys extreme sports like wake surfing and skiing, so it’s no surprise that her other half Ryan is equally as passionate about sports as well. Ryan is a personal trainer at UFIT Singapore, with experience working in different domains such as weight loss, conditioning, endurance training and injury prevention. 

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4. CJ — Narelle Kheng’s fiancé

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Narelle Kheng’s fiancé, CJ, is a lover of music too, but with a doomzi doomzi twist. CJ is a DJ who’s often seen with a pair of headphones around his neck, ready for his next gig at a bar or club. Bar goers can often find him spinning at Proof & Company or In Bad Company. 

Follow CJ on Instagram.

5. Shak’thiya Subramaniamm — Preetipls’ boyfriend

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Apart from running an adorable Preetipls fan account known as @preetiplsboyfriend on Instagram, Shak’thiya is also a musician who sings and plays the guitar. He’s part of a band known as The Midnight Suns, and he was also named Singapore’s Top Hirsute Musician in 2021.  

He regularly performs at JEFFO’S, a cosy bar along Duxton Road, and fans can stay tuned to the bar’s Instagram page for their live band schedule.

Follow Shak’thiya on Instagram.

6. Debbie Soon — Jian Hao Tan’s wife

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Debbie Soon is busy as both an online personality and a mother to her and Jian Hao’s daughter Starley. She’s also the founder of her own jewellery brand, Starry Jewellery, a brand that offers real and naturally-mined diamonds, with free worldwide shipping. 

Follow Debbie Soon on Instagram.

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7. Imran Rahim — Andrea Chong’s husband

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Supporting the glitz and glam of Andrea Chong’s beauty and fashion posts is none other than her husband Imran Rahim, whose occupation is a lawyer. He’s currently working at a law-based firm Eldan Law LLP, advising and representing professionals, creditors and debtors. 

8. James Chen — Melissa C Koh’s husband

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We can all relate to the pain of asking our dads to snap a picture for us, only to groan about how he can never get the right angles. Luckily, Melissa Koh’s partner James Chen will probably never face this issue with his kids. 

James is a photographer at Makers Inc. Studio and Babsbokeh. Interested clients can drop a DM or email to enquire about his services.  

Follow James Chen on Instagram.

9. Kenneth Loh — Yina Goh’s husband

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While the saying often goes “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach”, Yina Goh’s husband Kenneth Loh puts a twist to that by being the one doing the cooking instead. Often referred to as “Chef Ken”, Kenneth enjoys cooking and sharing his food hunts with his followers on Instagram. 

He’s also a home-based chef known for his popular lu rou fan, aka Taiwanese pork rice bowl. 

Follow Kenneth Loh on Instagram.

10. James Seah — Nicole Chang Min’s husband

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Some of the OGs may recognise James Seah as a finalist of Star Search 2010. Since then, the actor has been on multiple television dramas and films such as The Heartland Hero, The Unbreakable Bond and 1965. 

He’s currently managed by The Celebrity Agency and also owns a gym centre called The Garage. 

Follow James Seah on Instagram.

11. Matt Benfall — Brie Benfall’s husband

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With his stunning good looks, I assumed that Brie Benfall’s husband Matt was either an actor or host like she is. But he’s actually a coach of his own gym, Thrive Fitness Singapore. As someone who’s passionate about health and fitness, his gym offers a range of services such as fat loss, muscle gain and injury rehab. 

Follow Matt Benfall on Instagram.

12. Cheryl Chin — Titus Low’s wife

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Content creator Cheryl Chin has always been growing as an Instagram influencer long before she was married to Titus Low. But here’s a bonus for those who have been wondering who’s the lady who stole the heart of Singapore’s most subscribed Onlyfans creator. 

She’s a content creator with over 10,000 subscribers on YouTube, and also a singer with over 21,000 listeners on Spotify.

Follow Cheryl Chin on Instagram.

These Singapore Influencers’ Partners Are Successful Individuals In Their Own Right

It’s easy to assume that one is just “riding off someone’s fame” without even knowing who they are. Rather than being referred to as influencers’ partners, these individuals have certainly shown that they are successful in their own talents and skills. 

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When it comes to relationships, there’s always a large unspoken factor – age. There are many who find large age gap relationships unconventional, but there are also some who believe that age is just a number. However, with our society becoming relatively more open-minded, this factor may not be as taboo anymore. 

We spoke to three couples to share with us how they made their own age gaps in the relationship work and whether age truly matters in one.

Disclaimer: Some names have been altered to protect the identities of our interviewees.

1. “Respect is another key factor”

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“I am 28 and my partner is 48 this year. We’re currently engaged with our wedding set for July. We met when I was on holiday in Canada back in 2017. 

He texted me on New Year’s Day in 2019 with this: 

This text marked the start of their relationship
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I think it helps that my fiance gives the impression that he’s only 37, 38 instead of being 20 years my senior, so there was not that much judgement from my friends. I’ve been told I’m pretty mature and I act older than I am, so his family has been very welcoming. 

He used to be worried that I’ll eventually leave him for someone younger when I grow older but I don’t think that’ll be the case. Ride or die. 

We’re pretty lucky that we see eye to eye on 99% of things. For me, age isn’t really an issue. I don’t think about it, and I don’t bring it up unless it’s just to state facts.

My partner respects me so much and he never feels the need to put me down or remind me of my junior, fresh-out-of-college status. He sees me as his equal despite earning five times my salary. We both bring something to the table, and we both complement each other in many aspects, and it’s something that is important for all relationships. It just so happens that ours has a 20 year gap.

Other guys who I’ve dated who were significantly older would always bring up how I’m in a different stage of life and they’re all settled and I’m just thinking, “Yes, I know? Why do you have to keep reminding me like I’m someone to be infantilised?” 

Communication is important, especially in a relationship where one partner might be in a different stage of life compared to the other. Respect is another key factor. Both parties have to understand that there is an age gap but their love transcends the numbers on a calendar.”

Advice for others who are pursuing or are in a large gap relationship:
“Both parties have to acknowledge that there’s an age gap and they’ll both be at different stages in life. Make your peace, and it’ll be a normal relationship from there on out.”

– Kevin, 28

2. “Understanding and trying to understand your partner”

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“We met via the online streaming platform BIGO and we’re married currently, with an age gap of 6 years. Our experience has been amazing – we didn’t feel out of place, and the age gap has never been a matter of concern for us. 

There were skepticisms in the initial phases of the relationship from both friends and families, but after some time and meeting everyone on both sides, it became comfortable and accepted by them. Both of us connected on a similar level of perspective and maturity right from the start.

Some challenges we faced were family culture and beliefs. There was an event where one party entered the working world earlier, and the dynamics shifted as our physical time was lessened. We both learned to plan more time to spend together amidst the busy schedules. 

Eventually, we tied the knot and now we have two wonderful kids. To us, understanding learning to accept your partner is the most important. Being patient during tumultuous times makes a relationship more resilient. Give it time, and if it still bothers you, then bring the matter across calmly. Age difference might affect one’s relationship to another, but it is not a key factor in determining the success or health of a relationship.”

Advice for others who are pursuing or are in a large gap relationship:
“Give things time and meet the people who matter in both your lives.”

– Brendon (30) & Blanche (24)

3. “We come to a compromise”

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“My husband is 8 years older than me and we met on Tinder when I was 25. I almost overlooked him, but I was feeling bored and agreed to meet. From there, I fell hard, and thankfully he felt the same way about me. Even though we had a shotgun wedding 7 months in, we’ve been married for 7 years. Now, we have two kids together. 

The cut-off age for men had always been 4 years older – any older and I wouldn’t even have considered. I once rejected a dude for being 6 years older than me because we were in different life stages. But I felt so strongly for my husband that I threw the age limit out of the window. I think it actually helped that he was older because we were both looking to settle down. 

I think personality and similar values are defining factors of how compatible you are.  I am always surprised by the age gap because we get along so well. I totally forget we are 8 years apart until we talk about him being in primary school, and me being non-existent.

We’re always on the same page. I have just as much respect as I have love for him, and I always appreciate his opinion because he has so much more life experience. When we can’t agree on something, we come to a compromise or pray about the situation. I can only give counsel but ultimately, I let my husband make the decisions for the family and I have to respect that.

I think regardless of age, respect is all that matters. If you respect your partner, everything can be worked out.”

Advice for others who are pursuing or are in a large gap relationship:
“Don’t let the naysayers get you down. Focus on your own relationship, because that’s all that matters.”

– Hannah, 31

These Couples In Singapore Show That Age Doesn’t Determine The Success Of A Relationship

Every relationship has its own highs and lows. Most of these couples show that their relationship is no different from the average couple, and instead, they choose to overcome any judgement or obstacle together.

As they say, age is just a number, especially when love comes into play. Through these couples’ experiences, hopefully more people will be less quick to judge and to start normalising large age gaps in relationships. 

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In Singapore, we tend to have friends or partners that are around the same age group due to similar life experiences. Which is why many still view being in a relationship with someone much older or younger out of the norm. 

However, in recent years, age hasn’t been much of a factor when it comes to relationships, and more couples are proving that it doesn’t determine the happiness in a relationship. Just take a look at this list of famous Singaporean couples with large age gaps who’ve made it work as evidence. 

1. Joshua Tan (32) and Zoen Tay (25) – 7 years

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If you’ve heard of Ah Girls Go Army, you’ve definitely heard of the OG series Ah Boys To Men, a four-part movie franchise created by Singaporean director, Jack Neo. Starring as the lead in the first two is 32-year-old Joshua Tan, who played Ken Chow. 

With his recent marriage to 25-year-old Zoen Tay on 26 December 2022, the two vowed to commit to each other within the stunning walls of Raffles Hotel. Joshua and Zoen met at a muay thai gym in Singapore, and had a 5-year long period of dating, along with a challenge of an LDR due to Zoen’s medical studies in Australia. 

You would never guess that this picture perfect duo has an age gap of 7 years – considering their youthful looks. Love, and age, clearly knows no bounds. 

2. Joanne Peh (39) and Qi Yuwu (46) – 7 years

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If you don’t know this iconic Mediacorp couple, you’ve definitely been living under a rock. The duo were friends for 10 years, before getting closer during the filming of C.L.I.F 2 and 3. 

After that, the couple got married in 2014 and went on to have two kids. Take a peek at Joanne or Yuwu’s IGs, and you can see how they’re still so obsessed with each other, channelling major #Couplegoals. Despite Yuwu almost hitting 50 and Joanne 40, their vigour still shines through with their various activities and adventures together. 

3. Jean Danker (44) and Glenn Ong (52) – 8 years

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For some who claim that music is food for the soul, it can be said that music is also the way to the heart for Jean Danker and Glenn Ong. Both of them are radio DJs on CLASS 95 and SPH radio 91.3 respectively, and have been happily married since 2016.  

Unsurprisingly, the two first met in 98.7FM, when Jean was 16 and Glenn was 24. Many years later, the pair started dating in 2009. 

4. Maxi Lim (35) and Lizy Teo (27) – 8 years

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Actor Maxi Lim, famed for his know-it-all role as Aloysius in Ah Boys To Men, first met local influencer Lizy Teo at SG100, a government event that was held in 2019. In 2020, the duo tied the knot and have been happily together for about two years now. 

If Lizy looks familiar to you, that’s because she’s a talent for Titan Digital Media, and regularly appears in their videos. She’s also had a kid with Maxi – a two-year-old boy named Reign Lim.  

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5. Ryan (34) and Cherylene (23) – 11 years

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A word to possibly describe Ryan and Cherylene’s relationship would be “inspiring”. Despite their relationship initially wrapped in controversy and backlash due to their 11-year age gap and past careers, the two decided to follow their hearts and have maintained it for close to 3 years now. 

Ryan apparently slid into Cherylene’s DMs as he was interested in her back then – a pretty gutsy move which we stan. Their friendship simply blossomed to a relationship, which just proves that you can’t count anyone out when it comes to finding love. 

In a recent Zula interview, Ryan and Cherylene even showcased their closeness  through the immense amount of facts that they knew of each other. With their aesthetic couple shots and their shenanigans, it’s hard not to see the affection they have together.

6. Fandi Ahmad (60) and Wendy Jacobs (49) – 11 years

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This couple still looks as good as they did when they were younger – a goal we all aspire to have with our partner. Singaporean footballer Fandi Ahmad and ex-model Wendy Jacobs have an age gap of 12 years, but that hasn’t stopped them from tying the knot and thriving with their five good-looking children.

Three of their boys have followed in Fandi’s footsteps to become professional footballers, while daughter Iman, just like her mother, is taking leaps and bounds as a model and singer. We can only think of them as Singapore’s version of the Beckhams.

Just like every other couple, their 27-year long marriage has seen highs and lows. But Fandi and Wendy have stuck together through it all – a true devotion to their wedding vows. 

7. Mike Kasem (49) and Su-Ann Heng (35) – 14 years

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Former professional golfer Su-Ann Heng and radio DJ Mike Kasem have a story that is definitely one for the ages. It was love at first sight for Mike when he saw her on television as a host for a golf game. 

To his luck, they ended up going out for a game of golf after sending her a text and realising that they had friends in common. The couple started dating shortly after, with their love story leading to the two getting married in Malibu, after registering for marriage in 2018 – a true fairytale-style happy ending. 

Previously, Mike had been sure that he wasn’t going to get married or have kids. However, now he is happily married with one kid – which proves that anything could happen when the right one comes along. Large age gaps, who? 

8. Bong Qiu Qiu (35) and Joshua Tan (50) – 15 years

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If you’ve been following Bong Qiu Qiu since her early blogger days, you would know that she’s been with her photographer husband, Joshua Tan for about 18 years – dating for 7 years and married for 11 years. Needless to say, they’ve been together through thick and thin.

When they were married in 2012, Qiu Qiu documented their wedding closely on her blog, which showed her commitment to planning and the happiness she felt on the big day. 

Scroll through Qiu Qiu’s IG and you’ll instantly realise how dedicated she still is to her family and three kids. She also supports her husband’s home baking business extensively – team work truly makes the dream work.

9. Jayne Tham (33) and Vernon Anthonisz (50) – 17 years 

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While Jayne and Vernon have the largest age gap of 17 years on this list, their love constantly shines through regardless. Instantly recognisable from his voice on the radio, Vernon is a CLASS 95 DJ, while Jayne is a model and blogger. 

The two first met through a mutual friend on Facebook and must’ve hit it off – as they got hitched in 2014, before having two boys together, Liam and Niall.

Filled with adorable toothy smiles, fun trips together, and family pictures that’ll warm your heart, their Instagram feeds are aww-inducing reminders that true love prevails. 

These Famous Relationships With Large Age Gaps Break Stereotypes & Prove That Love Is For All Ages

Some people tend to frown upon relationships with large age gaps due to preconceived stigmas, but these Singaporean relationships are living proof that age shouldn’t be an issue. After all, every relationship takes work and effort, and if you keep your mind and heart open, love knows no boundaries. 

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