If you watched Netflix’s movie Missing when it trended last year, you would’ve discovered how easily one can track a person’s location in this digital age, thanks to phone features like “Find My iPhone.” While most people use these features for legitimate reasons, some abuse the system and use them to spy on their partners’ behaviour instead. 

According to a recent survey conducted by cybersecurity company Kaspersky, 22% of surveyed Singaporeans admitted to spying on their partners’ movements.

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Among 1,000 Singaporeans who participated in the survey, 42% confessed to installing monitoring spyware on their partner’s phone to track their movements. In terms of sex, 39% of the male respondents admitted to doing so, while 25% of the females did the same. 

Alarmingly, 22% admitted to stalking their partner to see if their words aligned with their whereabouts. They used digital tools such as social media updates, tracking spyware, and location-tracking apps. 

Since such apps and software can also be easily installed without one’s notice, it’s not surprising to learn that 43% of the respondents are concerned about falling victim to such spyware. 

To make matters worse, many of these spyware apps are designed to remain concealed from the phone user. Basically, they are invisible apps on your phone. Yikes.

Meanwhile, 25% of the respondents shared that they have experienced some form of online stalking from their partners. This includes being filmed or photographed without consent (16%), having their social media and email accounts hacked (9%), and receiving spam messages (13%). 

Such behaviours suggest a lack of trust among couples, resulting in either party feeling insecure, and resorting to installing malicious software to monitor their partner’s behaviour. 

As a result of such digital abuse, victims can suffer from serious psychological issues, such as low self-esteem, depression, and anxiety. Over time, it could even lead to post-traumatic stress disorder. 

While there are anti-spyware tools to prevent and combat digital abuse, the best solution is always to remind yourself that trust is the foundation of any relationship. Respecting one’s privacy and communicating with an open mind is also a good formula. 

These Results Show That Many Singaporeans Are Subjected To Digital Abuse 

In today’s digital age, the risk of experiencing digital abuse and surveillance from a partner through spyware and location-tracking apps is significant. To prevent such unpleasant experiences, explore relationship tips from couples who’ve been together for 10 years or more. 

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Though Salt-N-Pepa sang, “let’s talk about sex, baby,” how many of us actually talk about sex? Many of us assume that sex is something that just comes naturally. But in fact, it’s an intimate act that requires a whole lot of communication. 

Sometimes, due to this lack of communication, many couples find themselves getting physically injured during sex. In a survey conducted on 1,000 sexually active adults by sex toy brand Arcwave, it was revealed that a whopping 42% have suffered from a sex injury before.

The study

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What kind of injuries does one get during sex? You’ll be surprised at how common some of these are — from carpet burns and bruises to even penile fractures. After all, when you’re in the heat of the moment, you’re more prone to cause an accident while scrambling to get under the sheets. 

Unfortunately, women are more prone to sex injuries as compared to men, at the statistics of 47% to 33%. 

And among those who are actively engaging in sex, couples aged 25 to 35 have a higher likelihood of sustaining sex injuries out of other age groups, standing at 66%. Young and active. 

The sex-related injuries aren’t limited to just penetration. Out of those who have experienced injuries in the bedroom, the most common type of injury was bumps and bruises, followed by carpet burns, urinary tract infections, pulled muscles, vaginal tears, back injuries and even allergic reactions. 

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In order to spice things up in the bedroom, it’s common for couples to switch up their sex positions every once in a while. But according to the study, some sex positions are more dangerous than others, with 42% reported to have injuries while doing doggy style.

Surprisingly, the most classic position — missionary — caused 32% of people to encounter a sex injury. Meanwhile, 10% claimed it was the 69 position to blame. 

Our main takeaway from these statistics? Plan your sex positions wisely.

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Sex is often associated with the bedroom, so it’s no surprise that 56% of these accidents happen there. But for the experimental, sex accidents can happen outside of the bedroom too. Around 23% of injuries took place in the shower where it’s wet and slippery, 20% in hotel rooms, and 17% in cars. 

Other unconventional locations include airplane toilets and the workplace. 

Fun fact for the mile high club enthusiasts: Men are three times more likely than women to suffer a sex injury while on the plane. 

Survey Reveals that 42% Of People Suffered From A Sex Injury, Reminds Us To Be Safe Amidst Pleasure

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With this study conducted by Arcwave, a sex toy brand for men, it goes to show that while many enjoy sex, it’s important to be cautious of the potential injuries that may arise from doing it. 

An expert shared a few tips on how one can avoid injury in the bedroom, just as maintaining good hygiene, using lubricant to avoid vaginal tearing or chafing, knowing your limits and creating a safe word. 

The next time you’re down and ready to experiment new sexual activities with your partner, remember to be safe so that you can both enjoy the experience together. 

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As society grows and progresses, we’re seeing more female representation in previously male-dominated industries. This includes construction, engineering and architecture. However, despite the increase in gross monthly income for working women in Singapore, many still feel that gender inequality in the workplace persists till today.

In a survey conducted by YouGov, 7 in 10 women have experienced unequal treatment at work. From the type of job industry to age brackets, read on to find out who are the most affected in Singapore.

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Despite 70% of women agreeing that gender inequality exists in the workplace, only 55% of men agree with this statement. Though the number is lower, it’s still a pretty high statistic, considering it’s more than half of the men surveyed. 

This is especially prominent for women who are working in the construction sector, with 82% of them agreeing. Admittedly, it doesn’t come off as a big surprise. Most of the time when we think of construction, society has ingrained this image of a strong, muscular man to do the job.

Further statistics where inequality exists are for women in engineering, design or architecture with 77%, followed by health or medical services at 77% as well.

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In 2020, Singaporean women showed the true meaning of girl power with a 24% increase of female engineers in the Land Transport Authority. Compared to 2009 with a 0% increase, it’s safe to say that we’ve definitely come a long way. 

Yet, women continue to be treated as lesser than their male counterparts. While we’ve progressed, it’s obvious that we can do so much more to bridge this gap between the genders.

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YouGov also broke their survey results down based on the age range of women. They found that 74% of young women aged 18 to 24 are likely to say there is gender disparity at work. 

While it’s easy to assume they might not have enough working experience, women above the age of 55 consist of 25% retired, 23% working part time and 7% not working. This means that older women contribute to fewer workplace interactions. 

Plus, it’s clear to see that the world is growing and new jobs are constantly emerging. Especially in 2022, boomers and Gen Zs do not have the same working experiences anymore.

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Whether it’s unequal pay or being treated unfairly, workplace gender inequality has resulted in many females facing imposter syndrome. We hate to see it in this century still, but thinking that females “aren’t good enough” stems from a long existing subconscious of patriarchy.

These profiles from YouGov are based on continuously collected data, which means they are nationally representative regardless of education, region and race. 

These Survey Results Show That Gender Inequality Still Exists In The Workplace Despite Progression

More people are being made aware of gender inequality still existing in the workplace today. Hopefully, this means that Singaporeans can strive towards improving the work environment for women, no matter what industry they work in, even if it continues to be male-dominated.

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