As times are always changing, so are relationships in today’s generation. According to Paktor Group, a local dating app, today’s Millennials and Gen Zs are now placing a greater emphasis on value alignment and inclusivity in their relationships.
With higher emphasis on emotional resonance, GaiGai, Paktor Group’s offline dating arm, has identified three main stages in relationships today based on feedback from their relationship managers to help youth understand these changing dynamics.
The first stage of modern relationships is having casual social gatherings with a partner’s friends. For many Singaporeans, it’s important for them to observe their partner’s social circle in a fun and relaxed atmosphere.
Yes, this includes when alcohol is involved as well. According to GaiGai, many also look out for aggressive or rude behaviour while inebriated, highlighting potential red flags.
So the next time you’re thinking of inviting your partner out with your friends to sus out if they’re good or bad for you, rest assured that it’s a rational step in most relationships.
The second stage is common for couples who have dated for more than three months — a short trip abroad. It’s common to hear the warning that taking a trip together may make or break a relationship, as it’s very telling of each others’ lifestyle habits and living compatibility.
Especially for travel enthusiasts, these shared overseas experiences can also strengthen their bond, serving as an indicator of a successful long-term relationship.
The third stage is when things start to become a little more serious. After around six months of dating, this stage is where couples want to introduce themselves to their partner’s parents, either through a home visit or a simple meal.
It’s not surprising, as the Asian mindset of family and acceptance still remains deep-rooted in many of us. This stage allows the couple to deepen their understanding of each other’s family backgrounds — a key step for building a stable relationship in the long run.
While GaiGai has pointed out the three stages of relationship dynamics in Singapore, it’s also important to note that these are not fixed timelines for every relationship. Different people have their own set of boundaries and comfort zones, so couples should respect each other’s personal space and move towards these steps without societal pressure.
For those who are interested in more relationship-based surveys in Singapore, find out how often Singaporeans have sex here.
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